Sadly, as you know, even if the Memories day never forget always in our hearts shirt and I will buy this idea of love he talks about is great and good and fine enough, you may not know whether he really feels as he says he does. People sometimes give what they think the other wants to hear, trying too hard for “this” (when you two don’t even really have a handle on what “this” is!) to work out. Some guys want a girlfriend because a girlfriend is a good thing to have on many levels, and may be mostly going through the social motions. Maybe they’ve never had a love that broke their head open. Maybe that isn’t in them. These people are not necessarily bad, at least. But tragically, some people are. And they will act a part they don’t feel in the slightest. They will give themselves false to deceive. To get whatever it is they do want – which whatever it is, isn’t at all what they say. How will you know?
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You will never know really what a person means and feels, unless and until you know who they are. Personally, intimately and vulnerably, bright and shining and also at their worst. This is how trust settles in: by knowing. Over a good stretch of ground and through various crises and adventures, in which you see their response and their character and mettle proved. No way to know before you know the Memories day never forget always in our hearts shirt and I will buy this person. And some don’t have any practice at all, exploring these things through talk. Some really great people among them. Some have great motives at heart but couldn’t describe them, some have a half-ass map of confusion inside, held-wrong way up half the time. But they are not necessarily bad people because of it. Let’s face it, a lot of people haven’t really ever thought it through why they want to be with someone. What it really means to them. What a relationship (what this relationship) is for. Sometimes it’s just something people do. They like it when it’s good, and hope for good with you. Sometimes it’s a part of social standing, too: a mark of success, something expected, that you be able to show yourself capable of attracting and keeping a desirable lover. Usually I’d hope it’s something more: something to do with the person. But even then too often they don’t really know what to do with them when they’ve got them.